Domestic Violence/Anger Management

Domestic violence can include many types of abusive behavior such as physical, verbal, psychological, emotional, property, economic, or sexual abuse. Abuse always includes various types of controlling behavior that often results in a relationship defined by power and control. Controlling behaviors can include intimidation, manipulation, giving orders, a constant need to be right, micro-managing, as well as passive-aggressive behaviors like withdrawal, shutting down, and dismissive comments.

A Better Way Counseling is a Washington State Certified Domestic Violence Perpetrator Treatment Agency. We provide Domestic Violence (DV) Perpetrator Treatment for men and women who are court-ordered to be in DV treatment. Our DV Treatment program follows the guidelines outlined in the WAC 110-60A that defines how DV treatment is done in Washington state. Voluntary individuals that want to enter the DV program may do so and must follow the same guidelines. All DV treatment starts with an assessment before entering a group. Our DV Treatment program helps men and women learn and practice nonviolent methods of dealing with conflict in relationships.

At A Better Way Counseling Service, our philosophy is that we cannot teach respect by being disrespectful. In addition, Anger Management/Domestic Violence groups are designed to teach nonviolence, accountability, conflict resolution, boundary setting, assertiveness instead of aggression. The group leaders provide a variety of other concepts related to being less controlling and abusive. We believe that respect is essential to model as well as teach these concepts.

Counselor teaching clinicians about domestic violence and anger management

Domestic violence treatment, as directed by state law, is primarily done in a group setting. In rare cases, individual counseling may serve as part of domestic violence treatment. Couple’s counseling is never offered as part of domestic violence treatment because it has proven to be the most dangerous form of treatment for abusive relationships.

Anger Management & Domestic Violence Group Times

Tuesdays: 5:30 PM- 7:00 PM

Tuesdays: 7:15 PM- 8:45 PM

Tuesdays: 7:30 PM- 9:00 PM (Women’s group)

Wednesdays: 12:30 PM-2:00 PM
Wednesdays 6:00 PM-7:30 PM

Wednesdays 6:15 PM – 7:45 PM (online group)

Thursdays 6:00 PM-7:30 PM

Sunday 5:15 PM-6:45 PM

Cost per session: $40

Click here to make a payment for the class.

These groups are open to those who complete an assessment appointment with our counselors. Our Anger Management/Domestic Violence groups are designed to teach non-violence, accountability, conflict resolution, boundary setting, assertiveness instead of aggression, and a variety of other concepts related to being less controlling and abusive. We believe that respect is essential to model as well as teach these concepts.

Some offered group times may be full due to demand. To schedule an assessment or check group availability, please call our office at (360) 281-6824

If you need to complete a Domestic Violence Assessment, please fill out:
  1. Domestic Violence Pre-Assessment
  2. Releases of Information (ROIs) for:
    1. Corrections,
    2. Law Enforcement,
    3. Victim/Partner,
    4. General ROI and anyone else who may need to ask about your treatment progress or payments.
    5. A disclosure for the DV Staff you will be working with.

Assessments cost $145 and must be prepaid to reserve an appointment. If you have not filled out all required paperwork before the time of your appointment, you will have to reschedule. Please note that these appointments are nonrefundable/nontransferable. Contact our office for more details and to ensure we have received all required documents. Thank you for your understanding and cooperation.

Please be aware that our Assessments are solely for Criminal Court or voluntary clients. They are not applicable in Family Court. We are not able to offer Spanish or Russian-speaking classes at this time.

Current Anger Management & Domestic Violence Staff

Wendy Scott

Wendy Scott

I help others find their own compass to healing, by supporting them where they are in the moment, an

Caleb Merryman

Caleb Merryman

I enjoy connecting my clients to their values and facilitating change towards their ideal selves. I

Magen Brown

Magen Brown

I am passionate about helping individuals find their inner strength, recognize their ability to feel

Robert Johnson

Robert Johnson

I provide individual, couple, family and group counseling. I have lead domestic violence groups, agg